Section title text:  An FCJ Vocation.

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Photos of Sisters whose vocation stories follow below. Photo of Alicia - go to her vocation story. Photo of Agnes - go to her vocation story. Photo of MaryAnne - go to her vocation story. Photo of Rita - go to her vocation story. Photo of Mary Rose - go to her vocation story. Photo of Afra - go to her vocation story. Photo of Anouska - go to her vocation story. Photo of Ann - go to her vocation story. Photo of Inez - go to her vocation story.

Alicia Pérez, Spagnola
Afra Primadiana, Indonesiana
Agnes Samosir, Indonesiana
Anouska Robinson-Biggin, Inglese
Francisca Yohana Sri Winarsih (Inez), Indonesiana
MaryAnne Francalanza da Malta
Ann McGill, Canadese
Rita McLoughlin, Inglese
Mary Rose Rawlinson, Canadese

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It was exciting, crazy, frightening, incredible, all at the same time ...
Alicia Pérez fcJ, Spanish

Alicia Pérez with other FCJ Sisters.My name is Alicia. I am from Spain, joined the Sisters Faithful Companions of Jesus in the USA, and made final profession in 2006 in Salta, NW of Argentina. I arrived to Salta five years ago. Our community is located in very poor neighborhood. I work there and also teach computer science at the Catholic University.

When I was studying for a PhD in computer science, the idea of a religious vocation swept into my mind. It was exciting, crazy, frightening, incredible, all at the same time. Honestly, I couldn’t make much sense of it: here I was, half way through a PhD in computer science, and thinking of becoming a nun?? I had never heard of such a thing. And what a waste of my effort! Plus, I am a very independent person. Surely I could never make a vow of obedience and live in a community of sisters. Yes, I was giving myself all kinds of reasons why this was non-sense. And yet deep inside I had a strange, almost silly, sense of joy and meaning. I was becoming aware that God was inviting me to deeper intimacy and to become part of Jesus mission of proclaiming God’s love to the world. Jesus said, “I lay down my life freely”. I can’t even think of comparing my life to Jesus sacrifice, but after all I am called to be his Faithful Companion in laying my life down too. And in doing it freely. What does it mean “to be free”? In discerning my vocation I realized I was free when I was able to put aside my work, friends, security, etc. and choose a religious life commitment; free to choose something in spite of what “the world” prefers; free to choose something good among other good things (work, relationships); after all, all were gifts. This may be why I like this prayer, written by a Spaniard and a companion of Jesus, Ignatius of Loyola. It’s interesting I can’t always pray it because some days the cost seems overwhelming. Take Lord receive… all I need is your love and your grace.

Over all these years, life as an FCJ continues being for me the response to an invitation from God, to an experience of the love of God. The invitation is so deep and so powerful that one senses the need to respond to it placing one’s life in God’s hands. It is an invitation to share in the life and the mission of Jesus, making him present in the world by living as he lived, chaste, poor and obedient. With my commitment I want to be an instrument of the power of the name of Jesus to bring healing, salvation and hope to our world. This conviction and a sense of gratitude for it is what sustains me day after day.

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My Journey has just begun
Afra Primadiana fcJ, Indonesian

Photo of Afra with members of an Indonesian family.Eight years ago, when I made my first vows, I said to myself, 'My life journey has just begun'. Now, on the occasion of my final vows, I find that that expression is still valid: 'I have just begun'.

I was born in Merauke on the 2nd August 1968. My family is originally from Yogyakarta. I am the third of five children and grew up in Jakarta. Become a sister? The idea was there already, even when I was young. But it wasn't constant. When I was in primary school, I wanted to be a sister because I was interested in their way of life. In Secondary School I tried to forget about it, especially because many of my friends at that time had the same idea. I didn't want to be like the others. In Upper Secondary, the desire became stronger because I wanted to share my life by serving the poor. I wanted to go to Papua and live with the people in the villages there. My director said that desire was not enough. Really? It's a good intention though! Finally when I was at university I had a deep spiritual experience that changed my life. I felt God loved me and wanted me, so much. God wanted me to be there as I was. Therefore if you had asked me at that time, why I wanted to be a sister, I would have answered 'I was flooded by God's love and I fell in love with God!'

I became a postulant on September 29th 1991 and became a novice on August 26th 1992. I made first vows on September 18th 1994. All of this took place in Yogyakarta.

Why do I say that 'I have just begun?' Firstly because just to be a sister is not my final aim. If it was so, it would mean that, after making first vows, I wouldn't need to do anything any more! To be a sister is to choose a way of life in which I offer myself totally to God's love, and grow in loving God. This is a lifetime's journey.

Secondly, because faithfulness cannot be measured by how long I live in a convent. Faithfulness cannot be measured in quantity but in quality. Every minute is a time to continue to try to live as a faithful companion of Jesus. God's love is always new every morning. My vows to the Lord are also renewed every day. Therefore, every day I say, 'I have just begun'.

As it says in Psalm 85:11, 'love and faithfulness will meet.' God’s love will meet my faithfulness, and my love will meet God’s faithfulness.

Today I joyfully give thanks to the Lord for God's faithful love in my life and for God's call. I give thanks for the love and faithfulness of those who have journeyed with me: my family, close friends, fcJ communities around the world, those whom I have met in my ministry and those who have supported and challenged me to grow. Thank you. May God's blessing be with all of us so that we too may live in love and faithfulness to God.

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'I am, among all, most richly blessed...'
Agnes Samosir fcJ, Indonesian

Photo of Agnes with some students.I was born in Banjarbaru (South Borneo) on January 30th 1969. I was the third child of five children of Mr. Victor Samosir and Mrs. Mariani Marpaung. The seed of my vocation began to appear when I joined an altar girl group, an organist group and "Ascensio" children's choir under Fr. A. Soetanta, SJ, at Fransiscus Xaverius Parish, Tanjung. Priok, North Jakarta. The seed grew more and more when I was at Ursula High School, studied at Sanata Dharma Teacher Training Institute (now a university) and was involved in Christian Life Community (CLC). This precious experience encouraged me to join the FCJ Society, which name was still foreign at that time.

During the time of postulancy, novitiate, and temporary profession, I passed through a curving road which brought me to an understanding of life as expressed in Henry Viscardi's reflection:

I asked God for strength, that I might achieve.
was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey.

I asked for health, that I might do greater things.
I was given infirmity, that I might do better things.

I asked for riches, that I might be happy.
I was given poverty, that I might be wise.

I asked for power, that I might have the praise of others.
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God.

I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life.
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things.

I got nothing that I asked for, but everything I hoped for.
Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered.

I am, among all, most richly blessed.

It is this understanding of life which encouraged me to be courageous enough to say "YES" with all my heart and mind to the call to be a faithful companion of Jesus for my lifetime.

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Il viverlo è cosa grande!
Anouska Robinson-Biggin fcJ, English

Anouska Robinson-Biggin, fcJ.Pensi che la vita che conduci non sia abbastanza completa, che c’è qualcosa che manca e tu non sai che cos’è,
ma sei certa che ha a che fare con qualcosa che riguarda Dio? Pensi forse che la vita di tutti gli altri sia bella, ma tu hai bisogno di fare il punto sulla tua?

Si è vero. Avevo una laurea, un lavoro, una casa, un gatto, un cane – tutto ciò che il mondo mi diceva poteva rendermi felice, ma c’era qualcosa che mancava …… Dio!

Ho sentito un gran bisogno di approfondire la mia fede cattolica quando avevo 16/17 anni e per diverse settimane incontravo un sacerdote che mi aiutava a scoprire la bellezza della Chiesa nella quale ero stata battezzata parecchi anni prima. Non ho mai pensato che la mia ricerca mi inducesse alla vita religiosa – quando iniziai a pensarci tutto sembrava molto inquietante e pensavo “non io”. Ho visitato due congregazioni: una di vita apostolica e l’altra contemplativa. Nella prima mi sentii bene, l’aspetto comunitario era bello, ma il ministero non era per me. Quando poi visitai il monastero di clausura, le monache erano gentili, ma quello non era il mio posto.

Nella mia mente, dopo queste due visite di fine settimana pensavo che la vita religiosa non era per me. Ci avevo pensato, avevo cercato, ma non avevo trovato, pertanto credevo che la mia ricerca in merito fosse finita. Avrei continuato l’università, forse mi sarei fidanzata e sposata. Ma Dio la pensava diversamente.

Sì, mi sono innamorata. Questo è certo, ma il matrimonio non era il posto per la mia chiamata alla felicità e pienezza di vita.

'Oui' - 'Yes'!Mi laureai e poi trovai un impiego, ma c’era ancora qualcosa che mi mancava. Dio mi stava formando per essere pronta a dire: “Sì”. Alla fine raggiunsi il punto del non ritorno e mi offersi a Dio. Fino ad allora avevo cercato di dirigere la mia vita facendo questo e quell’altro, scegliendo una cosa e lasciandone un’altra, ma c’era ancora un vuoto da colmare che sembrava diventare sempre più grande e difficile da ignorare.

Avendo trascorso la Pasqua con degli amici, ricordo che durante la celebrazione della Ve-glia Pasquale mi sentivo incapace di continua-re a contrattare con Dio. Con le lacrime agli occhi e meravigliata per tutto ciò che Dio ave-va fatto dissi: ‘non la mia volontà, ma la tua volontà sia fatta’ – il mio abbandonarmi aprì le porte della grazia; finalmente potevo dire a me stessa e agli altri: Dio è il centro della mia vita, la mia vita si svilupperà attorno a Dio e alla Chiesa, come religiosa, non so come, dove o quando. Ma tutto questo non mi preoccupava più. Dio ci avrebbe pensato. L’offerta era ciò che potevo donare con tutto il mio cuore e così mi sentii completamente in pace.

Con questa pace ho cercato in internet. Non avevo idee chiare sulla vita religiosa o sui vari ordini religiosi, ma Dio lavorava via internet e mi condusse a questa pagina www.fcjsisters.org.

Avevo 26 anni. Dio lavorava lentamente, ma sempre in modo efficace e non si dava mai per vinto! Ho partecipato ad un fine settimana vocazionale e in quel primo incontro ero cosciente di aver trovato il pezzo che mi mancava. Se la mia vita era un puzzle da quattro pezzi, ero vissuta con tre dei quattro, ma improvvisamente avevo trovato il quarto e non lo volevo più lasciare.

Avere l’opportunità di incontrare suore che avevano donato la loro vita a Dio, che erano piene di vita, affettuose e felici a qualsiasi età, mi ispirarono a fare lo stesso. Sentivo che potevo fare ciò a cui Dio mi chiamava ed essere pienamente me stessa.

Trascorsi 2 anni di accompagnamento prima del mio postulandato, sono stati due anni di crescita, di approfondimento del mio grande desiderio e di prova della chiamata di Dio. Bra-mavo gli incontri formativi ed ogni volta che terminavano sentivo che dietro di me lasciavo qualcosa. L’attesa era tutto ciò che Dio mi chiedeva; mi preparò così al mio ingresso prima come postulante poi come novizia ed ora come professa temporanea.

Ora ho 31 anni, sono passati diversi anni da quando incominciai a pensare alla vita religiosa, 16/17 anni. Ma Dio è stato con me durante tutta la mia ricerca ed è con me ogni giorno, sempre, guidandomi nella mia vita di fedele compagnia con suo Figlio, Gesù.

Che cosa mi attrasse a diventare una FCJ? Ciò che mi attrasse all’inizio e continua ad attrarmi ora – 5 anni dopo – è la VITA! Giovani e anziane, vedo le FCJ con uno spirito vitale e piene d’amore.

Noi siamo contemplative in azione – chiamate ad essere compagne di Gesù e le une con le altre, lavoriamo nel mondo per essere dove Gesù sarebbe. La speranza e il desiderio che condividiamo nel cercare di rispondere a modo nostro alla sete di Cristo nel mondo, mi ispira a rispondere, a mia volta, nel mio ministero come insegnante e in tutto ciò che faccio nella vita.

Quando incontrai per la prima volta le FCJ a Londra fui affascinata dalla loro libertà di spirito davanti a Dio e dal loro modo di sentirsi a loro agio in Sua presenza. La loro unicità, fede profonda e fiducia in Dio e in se stesse si manifestavano nel modo con cui aprivano la loro casa a donne straniere.

Che cosa è necessario per diventare una FCJ? Amore e totale dipendenza da Dio e dal Figlio di Dio, Gesù – senza Dio non sono e non posso nulla. Tutto ciò che sono è dono di Dio. Apertura verso quelle persone che ti accompagnano lungo la via: suore e superiore. Dio ha lavorato attraverso di esse e continua a farlo aiutandomi a diventare la Fedele Compagna di Gesù che desidera io sia. Visione del mondo con gli occhi di Dio, accettando di non poter togliere il dolore alle persone, ma inserendoci nel modo più consapevole in esso ed essere loro compagne. Forza! Noi siamo una piccola congregazione internazionale, ma lavoriamo sparse nel mondo, in unione di mente e di cuore. Richiede forza e coraggio per vivere al servizio di Dio, delle tue sorelle e del mondo, ma il viverlo è cosa grande! Tutto ciò che Dio chiede è un cuore aperto che può usare e con le parole della nostra Fondatrice, “Dio dovrà guidarmi per mano; Egli stesso dovrà fare tutto il lavoro”

E Dio lo fa. Gli ho detto il mio ‘Sì’ non sapendo dove mi avrebbe condotta, eppure posso dire è il miglior viaggio che io ho intrapreso e mi piace! Mi auguro continui a lungo.

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God’s way of teaching and entering a heart is beyond our understanding!
Francisca Yohana Sri Winarsih (Inez), Indonesian

Photo of Sr. Inez, fcJ.I wasn’t brought up a Catholic because my parents were followers of Kejawan, a traditional Javanese religion. My father’s extended family were all Protestants, while on my mother’s side they were Muslims of strict observance.  When I got to class five of elementary school I began to do sholat (Islamic prayer) and to fast in the same way as the other children, without anyone telling me or guiding me. I think that was the first seed of my deep desire to be in relationship with God the Creator.

After graduating from elementary school I continued my studies in Solo. My elder sister, who had already become a Catholic, enrolled me as a catholic student.  So I found myself in the group of catholic students without having the slightest idea about the catholic religion.  As time passed, without anyone telling me or pushing me, just as previously I had begun to study Islam, now I decided to join the catechumenate.  I was baptised when I was in class 3 of junior high school.

I was quite faithful to praying … but becoming a sister was far from my thoughts. I wanted to work outside Java, to get a lot of money and visit new and faraway places. I liked travelling. Later, however, it was as a sister that I went beyond the borders of home and got to know the culture of other nations.

After graduating from senior high school I continued my studies at the Institute of Agriculture in Bogor. It was at this tertiary educational institution that the history of my vocation began. Two important events were the starting point. I began to ask in my heart “Lord, why did you create me? If life has a purpose, what is it? If this life is your will and has a purpose, how must I fill my life to make it meaningful?" The second important event took place when I was attending Mass on vocation Sunday.  After coming out from Mass, I was aware of a question from the homily which seemed to be meant for me personally: “God is calling. Who will respond if I don’t?” Heroic, that’s how I felt. There was an urging to answer the call, to sacrifice and live in a different way for God. I began to dream: what will happen if I respond to this?

I began to think about the possibility that I might a sister … God began to disturb my mind and heart. This disturbance pressed on my soul; I wanted to make it disappear but I couldn’t do so. God led me step by step as a teacher leads a student. I graduated from university and spent two years pondering and weighing.  From the church directory I knew there were very many religious congregations.  But at the time the only congregation I had any acquaintance with was a Franciscan one.  My thought at that time was, “Is there really any difference between congregations?  Don’t they all wear a habit and not get married?”  How naïve I was!  Later I learned that each congregation has its own charism and spirituality.  

In hesitation and anxiety about the rightness of my choice, I knocked on the door of the Franciscan convent.  I was well aware that there wouldn’t be a sign or a sure answer in this searching, but what I did know was that I was following the deepest urging of my heart and for sure God would guide me.  For three years I went through the program of postulancy and novitiate. I felt I began to know God in my life and I responded to Him wholeheartedly.  

At that time I was helped by the best formators. I was taught how to know myself and to know God, to mend what was wounded as well as to embrace weakness.  Some teachers were priests from the Society of Jesus.  From them I got to know Ignatian spirituality and the spirit of “magis” – to be more.  I learned about serving-honoring-glorifying God in the simplest of daily activities, in everything.  

My first vows were in 1992.  My journey went on, as I continued to learn and began to teach, for another four years. But in 1996 my time of joy as a Franciscan sister came to an end.  I was not accepted for renewal of vows.  This was a time of great darkness.

When I reflect back on that event, I’m aware that it was both the lowest point and the turning point in my life.  It took a long time for me to realize that this was the moment when I was born again in a new way.   God, who knew me so well, was going to lead me to a new place – the place that he wanted.  At that time I wasn’t able to understand the purpose of his heart and so I complained, repeatedly, with all my strength; I was angry … with many people but also God.

The next  three years were really a very hard time.  Just like the people of Israel who were angry, fed up, weary, grumbling, complaining, demanding and following their own will, so was I.  I had many questions and not even one was answered.  It seemed that, after a long time of being silent, God began to speak.  

When in 2006 an earthquake struck Bantul the FCJ sisters supported the efforts to help people rebuild their homes. Some materials from the devastated houses could be used again, some had to be thrown away, and some new materials were added.  Foundations and supporting pillars were rebuilt in a new way, hopefully better able to withstand any future earthquakes.  This, too, was what God did for me: helped me to rebuild my life again with some old materials that were in ruins but still usable; helped me to rebuild on a firmer foundation.

After a two year process of rebuilding, I found the new building to be more beautiful than the old. My keywords were: “Always journey on and don’t let me stop because of despair.”  That was the beginning of my new life.  I re-wove my relationship with God and at the same time I was healed and restored by Him. My faith became simpler, and for sure God and I were more able to be honest with each other.

Photo of Sr. Inez.As my studies came to an end, it already seemed clear that I was going to live my life as a single woman.. It wasn’t a matter of deciding whether to be single or not, but something deeper, that God was questioning … That sense of God’s urging was so powerful that I went to see a spiritual director, a Jesuit priest. He said to me, “That restless feeling you have, that lack of peace, is perhaps because you are in the wrong place.”  He gave me a card with the name of the congregation of Sisters FCJ. Of course, I didn’t immediately accept it.  I felt fear and worry at the thought of entering religious life for the second time.  I put it off for a long time. Finally I sent  a letter introducing myself to Sister Barbara FCJ in Yogyakarta.

For two years I went to and fro between Yogyakarta and Jakarta – joining together with others in the d’Houet group, a group named after the FCJ foundress, Marie Madeleine d’Houet, for young women who were interested to know about FCJ. Two more years passed, still without the courage to make a decision. While I still wasn’t able to be sure, Sister Marion asked me if I was ready to become a postulant.  I answered, “Yes.”  I felt full of worry, but every time I went into the deepest centre of my heart, I felt calmness, peace.   Still I said, “Lord, give me a sign.”  In prayer God answered: “You will not be given a sign. Now ask your own self. What do you most desire from your life? What do you hope from your life? Whatever you choose will have my blessing."

I made my final vows on January 3, 2010, happy and proud to be an FCJ sister.  God’s way of teaching and entering a heart is beyond our understanding. My journey to this point had many twists and turns, but its beauty is indescribable. (To read a fuller account of my story, click here.)

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Chi sono?
MaryAnne Francalanza fcJ da Malta

Photo of MaryAnne with an FCJ companion from Indonesia.Il mio nome è MaryAnne Francalanza. Vengo da Malta, una piccola isola del Mediterraneo. Sono andata in Inghilterra per incontrare le Fedeli Compagne di Gesù. Inizialmente le avevo contattate via internet. Ho studiato matematica all'università di Malta ed ho fatto il mio tirocinio come insegnante qui nel Regno Unito. Ho insegnato matematica a studenti dagli 11 ai 18 anni nella Scuola Cattolica di Hounslow e mi è piaciuto molto. C'è qualcosa che dà vita quando si lavora coi ragazzi. E' sia una grande responsabilità che un privilegio.

Non avrei mai immaginato che il mio andare a Dio mi conducesse qui, eppure questo mi fa sentire come a casa. Per alcuni anni sono cresciuta in un ambiente di spiritualità ignaziana lavorando a contatto con i Gesuiti di Malta e ho sentito che questo era il modo migliore per ritrovarmi e per essere pienamente me stessa.

Sono state attratta dalla Società FCJ per vari motivi, cercavo donne ignaziane, la cui vita fosse radicata in Dio e il cui lavoro fosse una continuazione della missione di Gesù. Cercavo un gruppo di persone che abbracciassero il mondo con tutte le sue gioie e i suoi dolori e che non avessero paura di 'vivere in pienezza'. Cercavo un posto dove poter usare i doni che Dio mi ha dato per la costruzione del suo Regno e un posto dove persone camminano insieme condividendo lo stesso ideale. Per me la Società FCJ è questo posto.

Ho iniziato il mio noviziato di 2 anni nel 2001. Questo è stato un tempo di grazia, ricco di sfide e di interiorità. Ci sono stati momenti di gioia e di sofferenza, ma ho scoperto anche alcune belle cose di me stessa. Ho realizzato che ho ancora molto da imparare.

Ma, se dovessi iniziare tutto da capo, non cambierei una virgola.

Ho fatto i miei primi voti nel 2003 e potrai leggere notizie a riguardo della mia cerimonia cliccando here.

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The Quest for God
Ann McGill fcJ, Canadian

Photo of Ann in a reflective time.Because consecrated religious women and men are explicitly about “the quest for God”, religious life is intended to be “a sign” which can and should inspire others to live their own particular calling. It witnesses also to God’s presence and love in the here and now, while at the same time, pointing to our ultimate “homeland,” the heavenly city that God has prepared for us.

Yes, God chooses whom God wills, and God takes the initiative in an individual’s life. Just as with Abraham and Sarah and so many others who have gone before us, we are all called by God to walk in faith, to trust God’s promises to us, to set out on the journey even when we do not know the destination. As Religious, we are called to make the relationship with God the primary and defining relationship of our lives. We are called to make Christ our First Love. And I think it is really important to emphasize this, that our lives are primarily about Love, about being the face of God’s love and compassion to our world, whether that be through the ministry of prayer as in the monastic communities, or through more active involvement in response to the needs around us.

God’s invitation may come in the form of an interior inclination to a deeper spiritual life. It may come in the form of a question or comment by someone who knows us well. There is no limit indeed, to how God may awaken a person to this sense that he or she may be gifted in this way.

Typically, at first, people tend to doubt, deny or try to turn a deaf ear to the little whisper of God that stirs this unsettling ‘’something’’ in their heart. They may consider themselves not holy enough, not good enough, too young or too old, too sinful, etc. Most often, the communication from God is not anything as dramatic as St. Paul’s encounter with God on the way to Damascus, but just God speaking to us where we are in the circumstances and ordinariness of our lives and our relationships. Nevertheless, I believe, each of us is given our own little “burning bushes” or “annunciations” if we have eyes and ears and hearts to perceive them in the routines of our days. That is why regular prayer, and reflection on our experience, is important for the development of a sensitive heart, so that we can catch this still small voice of God amid the busyness of our lives.

In my own case I felt this secret desire from my pre-teen years, and it was sparked mainly, I believe, through reading the stories of “foreign missionaries” in magazines that came into our home monthly. Like many people today, I had no personal contact with sisters, brothers or priests, apart from seeing the priest at church and occasionally when he visited the school. After finishing my education I had an office job, which proved to be very unsatisfying. I was involved in the social activities and relationships of that time and place and while that was fun, it left me wanting more. God was tugging at my heart.

In an effort to placate this persistent little voice I decided I would become a Nurse, thinking that that is a good thing to do with my life - I will be helping people. That was indeed a very positive and growth filled time in my life. But after several years of various kinds of nursing experience in various parts of the UK, the opportunity arose for me to go to Canada. So off I went, again thinking that being in a new country, meeting new people would satisfy this nagging little yearning for something more. Well, I came to Canada and lived in Calgary. I had my job, an apartment, car and all the trappings of singles in those days. I had a close circle of mainly outdoor type friends with whom I loved to hike and backpack and ski on a regular basis. I was active in the local parish. I was still close to my family. Life was good, but you know there was still this sense in me that something was missing. It was a persistent nagging sense of dissatisfaction with my life despite all that I had and all that I enjoyed.

I did a lot of spiritual reading and a lot of praying. I used to feel so frustrated with God, wondering why God was keeping God’s plan for my life so secret and mysterious, when all I wanted to do was live out “God’s will” in my life. Eventually I found a very helpful Spiritual Director and that’s when things began to move. It felt good to have someone to talk to about this turmoil that was going on inside of me. And I discovered there were several other people like myself, considering a religious vocation. After a couple of years of personal and group prayer, discussions, discernment, visits and live-ins with various religious communities, I was still sitting on the fence. Then one day I was walking in the park with a Sister and talking about my life when she stopped and turned and faced me and said “Ann McGill when are you going to stand up and be counted?”

Well, that did it! Being confronted like that by someone I loved and trusted freed something inside of me. It freed me to take the next step. And there are many steps from the time one applies to enter a community to the time one makes final commitment. It takes several years and there are many supports but also challenges along the way. I remember saying to myself after that first formal step that “at long last I am doing what I have always wanted to do.”

There are great “storms” swirling around us in our church and world today, and some may feel like Religious Life and the Church and all of us are “perishing” in various ways. But the Spirit of Jesus is still with us and says to us “Why are you afraid? Have you still no faith?” As the disciples in the boat being lashed by the storm, we too are called to invoke and trust that the power and the Spirit of Jesus will Shepherd us through these turbulent times. As I was thinking about this the words of poet Christopher Fry came to me:

“The frozen misery of centuries breaks, cracks, begins to move...
Thank God our time is now when wrong comes up to face us everywhere.
Never to leave us until we take the longest stride of soul we ever took.
Affairs are now soul size, the enterprise is exploration into God.”

Yes, we do live in turbulent times but we are not alone. We are called individually and as church to a radical openness, trust and dependence on God. As the poet says, we may be being called to take the longest stride of soul we ever took.

God is a patient, faithful, gentle but persistent God. If you or anyone you know is sensing that God may be inviting you to become a brother, sister or priest, I encourage you and them to seek out someone who can accompany you and guide and help you along the path as you discern your way forward.

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Un Sogno
Rita McLoughlin fcJ, Inglese

Rita McLoughlin fcJ.Non mi ricordo spesso i sogni ma quello che ho fatto dopo il ritiro di domenica nella mia scuola mi ha sorpreso così tanto che non potevo non ricordarmelo! Le Suore FCJ stavano facendo le pulizie dopo cena, compresa la mia insegnante FCJ, penso si trattasse di suor Philippa Maston, direttrice di un’altra scuola FCJ a Middlesbrough, la quale disse improvvisamente: ‘Allora, c’è qualcuna di voi che si farà FCJ?’ Io non ci avevo nemmeno pensato e non risposi, ma quella notte sognai che dicevo ‘Sì’! Ero sbalordita e mi misi a pensare. Sebbene avessi solo 14 anni all’epoca, quello era l’inizio di un percorso per diventare una FCJ. Attraversai però molte fasi e sentimenti, una volta volevo, un’altra resistevo all’idea.

La FCJ che mi insegnò educazione religiosa mi ispirò e mi aiutò a crescere spiritualmente. Un giorno le chiesi persino di insegnarmi a pregare, ma non le dissi mai che cosa pensavo dell’essere una FCJ, perché sapevo in un certo senso che una volta fatto, mi sarei decisa, e questo mi faceva un poco paura.

Venivo da una famiglia che aveva molta fede. Dicevamo il rosario in famiglia ogni sera e andavamo a Messa praticamente tutti i giorni. Eravamo impegnati nelle organizzazioni parrocchiali e, da bambini, ci incoraggiavano a fare di Dio la persona più importante della nostra vita. Tra la mia famiglia, l’insegnamento e l’esempio delle FCJ che avevo conosciuto, crescevo nella comprensione e nell’amore per Gesù. Diventava così vivo per me, come una persona reale e volevo dargli la mia vita in cambio di tutto ciò che aveva fatto per amore nostro.

Lessi avidamente la vita di Marie Madeleine d’Houet, la versione lunga e quella più breve, e mi infervorai. La trovai così coraggiosa, così determinata, una donna con una tale fede e un tale amore, il cui più grande desiderio era di fare la volontà di Dio. Ero entusiasta e ‘completamente presa’! Ma inviai del materiale riguardante la vocazione ad altre congregazioni, perché pensavo che non avrei dovuto entrare nelle FCJ solo perché ero stata a scuola da loro. Non mi sentivo attratta però dalle altre congregazioni sulle quali avevo letto informazioni, e arrivai infine alla conclusione che se lo stile di vita FCJ aveva fatto della suora che conoscevo una persona così impegnata, affettuosa e generosa, era sufficientemente buono per me!

La mia lotta non fini lì però. Talvolta accettavo l’idea che Dio voleva che diventassi una FCJ, in altri periodi, sentivo una grande riluttanza a farlo. Mi sentivo attratta verso la scelta di una carriera e forse il matrimonio.

Una sera, poco prima di uscire per andare a vedere un film, ero nella mia stanza e di punto in bianco mi convinsi che, se Dio voleva che diventassi una FCJ, dovevo provarci. Sapevo che non sarei mai stata felice se non avessi fatto quel passo. Ma questa volta ero alla fine del liceo e confessai infine alla suora FCJ che mi insegnava che stavo pensando di diventare una FCJ. Così, sebbene feci domanda per entrare all’università, feci anche i primi passi sul cammino che mi portava a diventare una postulante, e dopo aver lasciato la scuola a luglio andai a Broadstairs, nel Kent, nel gennaio successivo.

Quarantanove anni dopo, non ho rimpianti! Ma è stato un lungo percorso verso una maggiore maturità rispetto a quella che avevo a 19 anni, un percorso verso una fede più profonda, una comprensione del come condividere nella missione di Gesù e il servizio sono centrali per essere una fedele compagna di Gesù.

Sono ancora infervorata dalla visione di Marie Madeleine così come la comprendiamo e viviamo nel mondo di oggi. Era una donna di incredibile speranza, ed è ciò che i documenti FCJ recenti ci chiamano ad essere e ciò che io voglio essere! Marie Madeleine è diventata molto più viva per me negli ultimi dieci anni. La sua vita da giovane donna, moglie e vedova madre e religiosa è estremamente eloquente per me e per coloro che ho incontrato nei miei diversi ministeri. Sono dunque molto grata per quel sogno di tanti anni fa, uno sogno che si è avverato!

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Called to be a Faithful Companion of Jesus
Mary Rose Rawlinson fcJ, Canadian

Photo of Mary Rose enjoying a break in the mountains.In January 1960, when I told my mother I wanted to be a sister, a Faithful Companion of Jesus, she asked me what I knew about the FCJs. "Well", I said, "they wear mostly all black, they mostly all teach, and they never go home"!

This doesn't seem like very much to base a life choice on, but as I reflect back on those days, I realize that I knew considerably more than that.

I realized that becoming a sister was entering into a love relationship. From the witness of my parents particularly, I was aware that committed, faithful, love relationships depend on mutuality, openness, communication and trust.

I knew that becoming a sister was an expression of wanting to live my life for others, unselfishly. I knew I wanted somehow to be useful to God and available to serve God's people. My father asked me if it would be better to finish university first, to become a doctor or a teacher and then to offer that to God. That was tempting and I saw that it was a good suggestion. Still, I also had a strong desire to simply offer myself to God and let God use me how God wanted.

I knew that becoming a sister was about wanting to live for God alone. As psalm 62 puts it, "Only in God will my soul be at rest...". I realized that life commitment as a sister included not being married and not having children. That was not an easy decision to make and at times it has not been an easy decision to live!

I knew instinctively somehow that Eucharist would be essential to my life as a Faithful Companion of Jesus. Before I even considered being a sister, I had begun to go to daily Mass, usually to 7:30am at St. Mary's Cathedral so that my friends and classmates would not see me doing anything so holy or strange! When I was a child, our family usually went to daily Mass during Lent and then came home for breakfast together before school. I suspect the adventure and the joy of those early morning family outings contributed to my growing appreciation of Eucharist.

Although at sixteen I did not have many possessions to leave behind, somehow I had a sense that having things, even things like educational and entertainment opportunities of my own choosing, was not going to make me happy. I had a pretty strong hunch that the call of Jesus to "Come, follow me" would hold more than enough richness and possibility for me.

People have asked me, "But how did you know? How did you hear God calling you?"

Well, I certainly didn't hear a voice or get a letter from God! I considered possible ways to live my life: as a single woman, in marriage, as a sister. When I tried to pray, when I tried to ask what God wanted, the idea of becoming a sister persisted. I didn't get answers, just a simple, gentle, persistent sense of "Come and see!".

At first I said to God, "Well, life as a sister might be okay for some people, it probably is, but it's certainly not for me". But the idea did not go away! Then I said, "Well, okay God, maybe it is for me, and if this is what you want from me, I will be a sister, but not until I finish university." Still, the idea persisted! Finally, I said to God, "Okay, if you want me to be a sister, I'll do it, whenever you want, you show me the time!" I decided to ask to become a novice. I knew that if the Community told me I was too young and that I needed to wait, that would be a sign that God wanted me to wait as well!

I was accepted and many years later I am still grateful to God for calling me to this life, still happy to be living as a Faithful Companion of Jesus.

Today, our world is perhaps more complex. Certainly, our community would ask a young woman to have more life experience before making a decision to become a sister. Much has changed in the Church as well and in religious life in these thirty-eight years. Vatican Council II has had a big influence on all of our lives. FCJ sisters no longer wear mostly all black, they do many ministries as well as teaching, and they maintain healthy relationships with their families!

But the essential things remain unchanged. Religious life, FCJ life, is still a relationship of faithful, committed love. Eucharist is still at the heart of our apostolic, community lives. It is still a source of joy to me to be useful to God, to somehow know myself as invited to be partner with God, companion with Jesus, in God's ongoing work of creation and redemption. I still know that I want to serve God how God wants, to be useful to God's people how God wants. I still know that things do not make me happy, but being a loving, committed woman religious does!

Being a sister is not a choice I made once. It is a choice I make every day! Becoming and being a faithful companion of Jesus takes a lifetime!

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“Per avere questo nome Fedeli Compagne di Gesù,
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                                                                  Marie Madeleine, Fondatrice